Odd title, I know, but I mean it – yay for adoption!
On Sunday, my parents and I went out for lunch in celebration of Gotcha Day – the day my parents "got" me from China.
I don't believe I've mentioned this before, but I was adopted from Hunan, China when I was a few months old. I mean, I guess you probably could've figured that – it is a white dude who's in my Father's Day photos - but I haven't discussed it formally. Not that I personally think there's much to discuss; it's not like I remember anything about China or my birth parents, and I've always considered myself much more American than Chinese, or even Chinese-American.
So in general, my adopted-ness plays very little role in my everyday life. The exception of course is Gotcha Day, my family's little celebration of, basically, the fact that we are a family. We usually go out to eat, and my parents get me a little gift; it's not unlike a mini birthday party. My grandmother sometimes joins us too. It's just a nice little way for us to bond, and of course, a nice little excuse for us to eat out.
This year, we ate out at Bella Notte, one of my favorite restaurants in all of Lexington. I adore Italian, and this is probably the best Italian I've ever had outside of Little Italy in New York. Everything tastes so fresh and flavorful, the décor is stylish and charming, and I don't even feel badly about eating the pasta with heavy cream sauce – it's that good. My dad and I always get the family-size Penne Gorgonzola to share, and we can nearly finish it off.
After lunch, we went out and did some shopping for my dorm room. There wasn't a lot we could get, since I haven't seen my room yet and don't really know how much space I've got, but I did pick out some nice sheets and a duvet cover. I'll have to do a Saturday Musings + Coffee post about it sometime and show it all off to you guys; I'm definitely excited about it all!
I know this is kind of a short post, but I think I'm going to end it here. Thanks again to my parents for being super cool and also making it so that I didn't spend the rest of my life in a Chinese orphanage!
I’ll see you in the next one! Don’t forget to check me out on Pinterest, Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, and Tumblr! For business inquiries, shoot me an email at lensembledujour@gmail.com!
Top: Unknown (thrifted)
Pants: The LOFT
Scarf: American Eagle
I love your outfit, that pasta looks absolutely incredible & I love that you’re adopted! thank you for sharing, this looks like such a fun gotcha day 😊
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Thanks! It was a lot of fun!
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I love that you’re adopted too! So cool!! More people should adopt!! Such a cute celebration!!
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oh I’m not! my best friend is though, so it’s always been close to my heart 😊
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Probably hot and humid in China this time of the year, too.
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Haha, you’re not wrong!
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Wonderful read and love the way you celebrate this special day. All the best!
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Thanks! I really appreciate that my parents celebrate it in such a way too
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I jst love ur ootd..and ur simle is so beautiful..please pay me a visit..love
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Thanks! I’ll be sure to check out your blog when I get a chance 😀
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I love your photos! ^^
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Thank you so much! ❤️
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